What’s in a name…?

Chapter 1  “What’s in a name…”

My name is Vikki Jo Stewart but, it wasn’t always that simple! Mother named me Vikki Jo Crook after my birth father, Victor Joseph. He was adopted at the age of one and his birth name was Harry Savage. She divorced him a short time later married my stepfather, Dale George. Just after the marriage they told Kathy and me that we were now Vikki and Kathy George. I was almost four and Kathy was 18 months old. Think about it, Vikki and Kathy Crook ceased to exist (on paper) and Vikki and Kathy George attended K-12 without birth certificates! Not really a problem until I graduated from high school and started working on my first ‘real’ job. The job for the city of El Dorado required identification in the form of a…wait for it…birth certificate. I produced a certified copy of my birth certificate and explained my renaming expecting that it would all be okay. Well, it wasn’t okay and I had to go to court to change my last name legally to George. As luck would have it the only attorney I knew was a sponsor for a club I was active in at Butler Community College — People-to-People! Erwin Grant was a kind and gentle character and agreed to represent me. He explained that it was fairly simple and straight forward. I’d have to publish a two week notice saying I was changing my name in the local paper, a different county in Kansas paper, and a paper out of state AND it would cost $187. So the notices were published and a court date was set. The morning of the hearing Grant told me the process is quick and easy. He’d ask me why I wanted to change my name and I’d respond then the judge would bang the gavel and pronounce that I was Vikki Jo George. I remember thinking, it’s $187, I have to do something…  

It’s important to the story that I add another character, the judge. I worked as a soda jerk after school at Clark’s Drug store in downtown El Dorado my last three years of high school. Most days a few minutes before 4 pm I would stir chocolate syrup into a glass of milk (called a 400 on the menu), set the glass on the counter, give a  stool a hard swing in time for Judge Darling to walk through the door for his afternoon 400! On the court day a few folks were in the court room as my attorney, Judge Darling and I prepared to begin. After the swearing in, Erwin asked me why I wanted to change my name. I responded I wanted to change my name to “Goosey.” The color drained from Grant’s face. I continued to share that I was engaged to Jimmy Horney and that my intention was that the announcement in the paper would read Goosey/Horney vows. Judge Darling hid his mouth and there was laughter in the courtroom.  Then I said, OR I want to change my last name to my stepfather’s — George — and be Vikki Jo George so I could get paid and be legal. Judge Darling banged the gavel and said So Ordered, you are Vikki Jo George. 

NOTE: My sister Kathy did not change her name until she married John Peek. There was some confusion when the minister and her marriage license and certificate all said Donna Kathleen Crook! 

My first marriage to Ron Moore lasted 15 years (5 happy) and added another name/identity.

What’s in a name? Well, I thought of myself as: 

Vikki Jo Savage Crook George Moore Stewart!

I grew up feeling my identity was fractured.  That could account for some of my behavior in the late 6O’s! On a positive note, over 37 years ago I married George R. Stewart thus becoming Vikki Jo Stewart. I owned the name and it meant the end of feeling fractured.  I was like the Velveteen Rabbit,  I became real!  

Becoming real is another chapter!

MY FAVORITE FOOD

As I was growing up I began to realize that I liked more salty foods than sweet stuff. Even today I rather eat more salty food than desert.  I was not t00 exided about candy or chocolate, though I did like hot or cold chocolate.

MY ACCOMPLISHMENTS

MY ACCOMPLISHMENTS

Anything that I accomplished in life has not been of my own effort. It is the Lord who deserves all credit. He is the one who gave me direction, guidance, blessings, protection, wisdom and supplied my needs.

The most important thing that I was able to do by God’s mercy was to accept the Lord Jesus Christ as my Savior. The next was when the Lord put a desire in my heart to be involved in reaching the unreached with the Gospel. Then led me to take a welding course in Waukesha in 1968. At that time, I could only say and understand very little English, but the Lord helped me through it. Right after I finished that course, I had a job waiting for me with no questions asked. It was a shop where Stone Breakers were built. The name of the business was “Highway Machinery Co. Two weeks after I started to work, I asked the owner Gene Johnson about taking two weeks off to go to Aguascalientes and see my family. He told me to see him the coming Saturday. I did and he gave my paycheck for the week and then he handed me another check for two weeks’ pay. I was surprised but thankful. After I got back, I worked for him as many hours possible that he would need me for. I also mentioned to him that I was going to attend the New Tribes Bible Institute. He was happy to hear that though he was not a believer. I tried to witness to him, but he was never interested. I asked the Language Coordinator Jean Dye Johnson to fill out the application for me and I handed to Paul Burkhart the Bible Institute Principal the day before classes started. He didn’t look at, he just said come tomorrow. The Lord must have given him the assurance that I was ok. At least that’s what I like to think.

While working I was able to save plenty of money since room and board was only $14:00 a week. I saved enough to pay for the rest of the Training. The Lord then led me to continue the missionary training in one of the Boot Camps (As they were called back then) in Oviedo, Fl. On Jan 1970. It was snowing when I left the Bible Institute but there was plenty of sunshine in Fl. Then after finishing up that course, I made my way to the final stage of the training in Jan 1971. The Language Institute was located in Roach, MO. That was a very appropriate name for it because there were a lot of roaches.

While I was a student, I had the privilege and the blessing to collaborate with Jean Dye Johnson in the developing and recording of the Spanish program. It was called “Situational Spanish” Book 1 and book 2. For many years all missionary candidates going to a Spanish speaking Country knew my voice very well. It was used in Mexico and in all the Countries NTM works in South America. During the last semester I studied Portuguese because I wanted to go to Brazil. Portuguese was an easy language for a Spanish speaker and so I was done in 3 months. The staff, not knowing what to do with me, I was asked, to go to the Cherokees to put into practice the language and culture technics that I had just learned. Something funny took place while I was in that tribe. After I had being there for two weeks, I noticed that 2 men kept looking at each other and that made me feel uncomfortable. I though I had somehow violated their culture, but they didn’t say anything. I finally asked them about it, and they then asked me: Why do you keep asking how do you say this and that in Cherokee when you do speak Cherokee? I told them that I did not speak their language but that I was learning it. They asked again: Aren’t you a Cherokee? I told them that I wasn’t. They asked once again }: What tribe do you belong to? I told the that I was from Mexico. But in their mind, they understood New Mexico. I tried to explain the difference with no success. I just took that incident as a complement because that meant that I was learning Cherokee well enough for them to assume that I was one of them.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            After being done with the whole training in December 1971 and then became officially member of NTM on February 1972, I was ready to get ready to go to Brazil. Shortly after that I was approached by Macon Hare, one of the Executive members and asked me if I would be willing to consider going back to Mexico as NTM was praying about starting a work there. I had peace about it and started making plans. I had one main problem- I did not have a Home Church or any kind of prayer and financial supporters. Faith Bible Church at the bottom of the hill from the New Tribes bible Institute asked me to be a member of the church so they could start supporting me. Then the Lord began to raise more supporters.

In order to start the work in Mexico there had to be a main Survey Trips. Dick and Rose Sollis  (She was Joe Moreno’s daughter. A Mexican American man who went down to Bolivia with the first missionaries that were killed by the Ayoré tribe) and I went on that survey in January 1974. We met in Mexico City where we inquired about the legal aspects and then straight down to Oaxaca, where the Executive Committee had told us to look into for being the State with more tribal groups. At that time, the Wycliff missionaries had permission from the government, and they had occupied the most strategical tribal areas. It didn’t look good for our Mission based on what I saw. From there we went to Chiapas and made our way back. The Sollis went back to the States. Even though Leadership had told us not to go anywhere else, I felt the Lord ,was leading me to Chihuahua. (Maybe, one of the reasons was because that’s where I was going to meet the one the Lord was preparing for me to marry) I went to Baborigame where I felt it was a good place to start a work, Guachochi, a center town that could be used by missionaries to get groceries and some health service, Cabórachi. another place where I felt it was also a good place for missionary work and Tónachi. I went back to the States and gave my report to Leadership. Finally in 1980 Leadership realized Chihuahua was the place to start. Other survey trips were done  in 1981-1982where missionaries are presently working. Praise The Lord for all His goodness!!!

In 1996 Soledad and I helped Virgil and Jerry Holt start a Bible Institute in Chihuahua. Started with 3 students and by 2016 we were having over 50 students. In 1997 I became the Bible Institute Chairman and Soledad was the accountant and Secretary. In the early days we didn’t have much help and my wife and I were in charge of both boys and girls dorms. Later on we got more help. Now we retired after 50 great years of serving as a missionary and 36 for Soledad.

Today we have graduates from our Bible Institute from different Countries. Some of them working in Tribal areas in Mexico, Panama, Nicaragua, Tanzania and Papua New Genea

TO GOD BE THE GLORY!!!

My father

My father was 6 years old when WWII started.   He was the youngest in the family among his two older brothers.  My grandmother expected another child. They lived in Gomel. I August 1941 my grandmother  with children left Gomel and started there way toward safe place  Orenburgskaya area.  They used different ways of transportation, walked although more often on the train. Low bombs cracked thei train in the town Orel.  They run from the train and at falled down fro the reail road.  Many people were killed. On my father eyes his cousin burned alive.  Awful smell of burned  people was all around.  The sound of that bombing and caking of the train stay with my dad for a long time  and its have affected his hearing.

During all the time of evacuation they suffered from the strong frost, hunger, infections diseases .

In 1944 they came back to Gomel and they are house occupied by another family.

My father start working at 16 years old in the factory and continue until he was 55 years old

He became an electrician and he start like a helper , by the end of his career he was  a higher ranked electric.

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MY ACCOMPLISHMENTS

MY ACCOMPLISHMENTS

Anything that I accomplished in life has not been of my own effort. It is the Lord who deserves all credit. He is the one who gave me direction, guidance, blessings, protection, supplied my needs, wisdom, etc.

The most important thing that I was able to do by God’s mercy was to accept the Lord Jesus Christ as my Savior. The next was when the Lord put a desire in my heart to be involved in reaching the unreached with the Gospel. Then led me to take a welding course in Waukesha in 1968. Right after I finished that course, I had a job waiting for me with no questions asked. It was a shop where Stone Breakers were built. The name of the business was “Highway Machinery Co. Two weeks after I started to work, I asked the owner Gene Johnson about taking two weeks off to go to Aguascalientes and see my family. He told me to see him the coming Saturday. I did and he gave my paycheck for the week and then he handed me another check for two weeks’ pay. I was surprised but thankful. After I got back, I worked for him as many hours possible that he would need me for. I also mentioned to him that I was going to attend the New Tribes Bible Institute. He was happy to hear that though he was not a believer. I tried to witness to him, but he was never interested.

MY FAITH

3. MY FAITH

  1. MY FAITH

I was born and raised in the city of Aguascalientes, Mexico. Like most people back then I only knew the catholic teaching. We were very conservative. there was no drinking, smoking, dancing or use of bad language. The dirties word we used was “Dummy”. We practiced our religion as much as possible. When the priest told us to fast, we fasted. When told to pray the rosary so many times a week, we did exactly that etc. One day when I was  6 years old, I heard that protestants had a book called “Bible” and the Catholic Church told every catholic that anyone that would read it or even look at it would go to hell. Well, from then on, I didn’t want to ever see a Bible. I always had the desire to serve my God as a missionary to baptize as many people as possible so they could be saved or be a priest in a local Church.

Time went by and when I was 18, I either wanted to be a professional actor, get married and live a normal life or be a priest. My older brother Arturo was living in Waukesha, WI at that time and had come to know the Lord through the witness of some missionary candidates while he was drunk on the streets. The Lord used him to invite me to visit him as he was attending the New Tribes Mission Bible Institute. While there, the Lord also used other Christians for me to understand the Gospel.

The missionary candidates told me that when somebody is saved the Holy Spirit changes lives and helps them in their Christian lives. I desired to put them to the test. I went to visit a future missionary couple at 2:00 a.m. The doors to the building were not locked because back in the 60’s  was still safer. I knocked at their door and the head of the household greeted me and asked me to come in. I heard his wife ask: Who is it honey? At that time, I wanted to at least catch the wife making faces or some kind of gestures indicating her discontent. I turned facing the front door as the man was closing the door. Then I lifted my right arm and acted as if I was going to scratch my nose to use the amethyst stone on my gold ring as a reflection and see the wife’s reaction. But they both gave me a real warm welcome. I took it that the Holy Spirit did change lives. After all they didn’t get upset at me for knocking at their door at late hours. Believe it or not (Well, you need to believe it) that really encouraged me to read the Scriptures more. Later on, I saw my need of the Savior Jesus Christ. I’m so grateful to the Lord for the greatest gift of Salvation. He knew that in Aguascalientes I was not going to hear the Gospel. He knew exactly what I needed to do and how many people were to be involved in my life. He used my brother to take me to Waukesha where the New Tribes bible Institute was at. It was there where I came to know the Lord and then where I started my training to be a missionary and serve my God the way I know Him now.

They used simple and clear passages to help me see my wretched condition without Christ.                                                                                                                      Juan 3:16-18 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.  For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because they have not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son.                                                                                         John 5:24 “Truly, truly, I say to you, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life. He does not come into judgment, but has passed from death to life.”                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         Juan 14:6 Jesus answered, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.                                                                            Acts 4:12 “Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.”                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           Romanos 3:23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God
Ephesians 2:8-9 “For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast.” Titus 3:5 Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his mercy he saved us, by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost;

I now have a Ministry for 50 years, a wonderful wife, kids and grandchildren.

Praise God!!! My prayer is that all my Kids, grandkids and all my descendants incuding Carlos and his family may come to know Christ as Savior and always look to the Lord as they grow in Him.

 

Looking Back

Looking back on my career in the Army, I have to say I am so thankful for it all. I feel like the Army and I had a square deal- I have given the Army everything that I had and the Army has given me tremendous opportunities and experiences. They took a kid with a 2.7 GPA who didn’t have much going for him all the way to West Point and Harvard grad school. I was given the opportunity to serve and fight for my country, which I will always feel fantastic about doing. Now, do I want my children to join the Army? My answer is a definitive, “No!” 

Let me explain. I look at it this way- life in the Army is hard. You move around a lot, you’re gone away from your family a lot, you take extreme risks that could end up killing you. I bore all those burdens for them so I could make something of myself, climb the socioeconomic ladder, and give them a good life, and in many ways, a privileged life. I did all this for them so they won’t have to. It is my dream for them to grow up and serve their community or country in other, safer ways with less hardship. 

As for my plans moving forward, I figured out what I would like to do with the rest of my life while I was attending Harvard Business School- I’d like to buy a small business in a small town and run it for my employees. I believe the way we think about running businesses and profit sharing in this country is fundamentally flawed and I would like to be different. I’m hopeful for where that vision will take me and us as a family. 

I leave my fellow Americans with this message: Instead of thanking me and other military members for our service, instead, please be civic-minded and responsible citizens. When you are willing to fight and die for something, you would like that thing to live up to the ideals that you thought it stood for in the first place. It seems to me that everyone joins the Army for different reasons, but most of us end up staying because of the people around us in the Army. I can’t help but feel that if my soldiers are, on average, great people and worth everything I give up for them, and they are a microcosm of this country, then the logical conclusion is that the average American citizen is worth that as well.

From what I see in this country, I am not convinced that we are living up to this notion. People are people are people, right? We all have good things about us and we all have bad things about us. Let’s just embrace that fact and try to bring out the good in each other and start acting like people who are worth sacrificing for.

Harvard

Harvard grad school took us to Boston, Massachusetts, and it was magical. We met a lot of good friends outside of the Army, although we did miss some of the community aspects it holds. Hannah and I spent all of our time together that summer, like super Daddy-Hannah time, no Mommy. 

This was so amazing, but then when I started grad school in the fall, Hannah was not having it. She was so upset with me. I’d come home from being at school all day and she’d run into the other room and wouldn’t speak to me. At first I couldn’t figure out why, then I got it. I told her I was sorry that I had to go to school and couldn’t hang out with her all day anymore, and things got ironed out and eventually she started to get over it about four months later. 

Transitioning from being deployed to being home is always hard because everyone has a life and a routine, certain ways they like things, and you come home and just screw it all up. Now there’s just one more person in the juggling act. Add to this moving to a new city and embarking on a completely new life experience- it was very, very hard. Once we got through that though, things got much easier. We spent a lot of time together in the summer, which was really nice. Even though that time was hard, I’m glad those two years happened because it helped us figure out who we were as a family.

This last move from Boston to West Point was a little easier because we had figured all that stuff out earlier. Hannah still had a pretty rough time with it; she did not want to leave Boston and for the first year we were here she talked about being there all the time. Moving is always an adjustment, and I think much harder for the kids than Lindsey and I. Though it is weird that I’m home all the time now.

In the past, I would leave every three to four months for a month at a time on top of my deployments. Lindsey is very much an introvert and likes to be alone, so learning how to be around me much more now has been a transition for her, and I reckon I can be a lot to deal with. We seem to have figured it all out and now we’re sort of used to it, but I think this next PCS out of West Point is going to be really painful. We all love it here. Hannah’s best friend is our neighbor, my son is really great friends with her sister, and Lindsey and I have made good friends as well. This will be a hard move, but I have faith we’ll get through it and hopefully never have to move again afterwards.