Our Family Holidays

Our Family Holidays

Porch Swing Tip of the Week: Our Family Holidays

Recently helping edit a Porch Swing life story, I had to research some of the holidays the author mentioned, because they are not ones I’m familiar with — and they were so interesting! Probably her family knows all about why the family celebrates each holiday, who is usually invited, what foods are traditionally served, even what clothing is customary. What about when later generations read the stories? Will they know or remember? You know where I’m going with this….

Even if you think your readers will not need an explanation, putting those details into your book will help make clear what is important to you and why the information has been passed down over the years. This is essential when you consider that each family celebrates in their own unique way. Every family has entertaining stories to tell about “that one year on Rosh Hashanah when …” And your own perspective needs to be preserved because no one can know nor research the individual outlook of you!

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Jayme & John Resnik and the Porch Swing Team

Out in the open world

 

Arnold Homes

  Re-edwest or Arnold Holmes for children they went by both names.  That was one of the worst experiences in my childhood. I suffered sexual abuse physical abuse emotional abuse pretty much anything that you could imagine while I was there.

 

I would come home sometimes for a weekend homepasses my mom would come pick me up. I remember one home pass I was home and they were painting that we were painting the fence by the house, I wasn’t much for painting and I didn’t do a very good job and my parents didn’t like it they thought that I should have done a better job because I wanted to paint.

I ended up getting really upset that day and stayed in my room crying and in 8 year old you know they’re gonna say things that they don’t mean. My mother took that as gospel truth, and when an 8-year-old says something like that,  a parent should never take that as the kid meaning it. I remained in Arnold Homes for 3 years after that, I was not afforded any further home visits with my mother.

I was constantly running away, because of abuse at Arnold Homes. I went through about every house they had, there was nowhere else for me to go. I remember going through the Gas “shortage” caused by OPEC. I even remember visiting the Governor’s mansion when Jerry Brown was Governor of California the first time.

 

 

Nancy